My Boyfriend Dumped Me Because I Am Not Like Other Girls - What Should I Do?

Every guy wants a girl they will never get tired of loving. But, when a guy wants to dump his girlfriend because she is not like other girls who wear makeup and fashionable clothes, then I think they both need help.

Are you experiencing something like this in your relationship? Go ahead to read some of the best comments I have put together to help you out.

Ashish Onkar, Student at Jabalpur Engineering College (2014 - Present)
"Wait until you find a guy who loves you not for the face powders and other external enhancements but for the personality you are. You need someone who is into you, someone who know that you are not a Rihanna or Beyonce clone but you are you and you are one of a kind."
Plain Truth: Find a boyfriend who is not looking for a HOT girlfriend or as popularly used "SLAY QUEEN" but a real woman. A deep thoughtful mature person. A person of substance and personality. 
You don't need to change your style just to suit your boyfriend, the truth is, most real deep men may sleep with the HOT girls but they will marry a real woman because they understand that marriage is not all about SEX.

Arthur Romano
"You should live your life, be happy, accept yourself!"
Plain Truth: You need to be with someone who will make you feel special, not someone who will always compare you to another girl. A person who compares you with another girl see does not see you as the best. That's just the Plain Truth!

HELP someone TODAY by dropping a comment! Please, make use of the (facebook) comment box below, remember to tick the (also show on facebook). This will make your advice display on your facebook timeline as the world will get to see you provide answer to questions.

Audrey Koziol, An Avid Learner (USA)
"You should realize that someone who doesn't appreciate you for you, and what you like to wear and look like, is the wrong person to be with."
Plain Truth: Someone who is a good partner is someone who appreciate you for who you are, and not who he wants you to be. They support your choices, regardless of whether they approve of them or not.

Amala Rangnekar, Application Developer at Oracle (2016 - Present)
"Congratulations! You got rid of a major problem from your life. You can carry on with your life, career and even met someone new who appreciates you as you are. Take your time."
Plain Truth: Opting out of this kind of relationship early is better than ending it after marriage where he tried to change you, or even worse going after women with makeup and fashionable clothes.

Bothwell Phiri
"Wait until you find a guy who loves you not for the face powders and other external enhancements but for the personality you are."
Plain Truth: The problem with most girls and women is that they are trying to get men based on looks or sex. Remember, he will not be horny for life! 

Michael Carrera
"He did you a favor for removing himself from your life! If he was so shallow to focus on clothing and makeup as a benchmark to dating you then he was never worthy of you."
Plain Truth: Shallow minded men uses things like sexy clothes, makeups etc. as a benchmark to dating. I am sure you do not want to end up with a shallow minded man.

I'esha Hornes, Author of Flawesome...Because God Don't Make No Junks!
"It's better to be dumped for what you're (authentically yourself) than to be with someone who only likes you for superficial reasons."
Plain Truth: There are a thousands and millions of boys around the world, who dream to have a girlfriend like you. 

In our case, the questionnaire was dump by her boyfriend because she is not like other girls who wear makeup and fashionable clothes. She is asking you, "What Should I Do?"
HELP someone TODAY by dropping your own advice with the use of the comment box below (FACEBOOK). Remember to tick the "Also Show on Facebook". This will enable your answer display on your Facebook Timeline.

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