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Over the past few months, the case of suicide reported in Nigeria is alarming, something that seems impossible in a country like Nigeria has now become an everyday news. I don't know if you have noticed, most of the victim's friends, family etc. say almost the same thing when they are asked if they notice any strange behavior before the incident. Response like: "He/she was showing signs....he/she was talking about this and that...." comes up. We only have a few ones who says "He/she was a happy fellow" or "He shows no sign of depression". If he was showing signs or talking about it, he needs help! How Can I Help A Friend With Suicidal Thoughts? Here are some ways you can possibly help someone with suicidal thoughts if you notice one. Tell Them To Think Less: Overthinking makes a minor problem looks more terrifying than it actually is. Try to talk them out of their "Thinking too much" attitude. Help Them To Overcome The F...

The older generation who saw some of Nigeria's best Goalkeepers in action would tell you there’s no goalkeeper today that can match the ability of these goalkeepers. But today fans may feel Vincent Enyeama who helped Nigeria’s Super Eagles win the Nations Cup is the best goalkeeper the country has ever produced. Since there was no video coverage for those whose career span in the early 50s’ – 70s.’ We had to rely on the verdicts of some ex-footballers such as Joe Erico, Segun Odegbami, Christian Chukwu, Peter Fregene… etc. to make our selections. Let’s see if their profile (as gathered from their ex-teammates) will be enough to help you decide who your all time best Nigeria goalkeeper is.  Sam Ibiam   Sam Ibiam cut an incredible reputation as the goalkeeper players can’t beat with the ball. He conceded only 9 goals in six years of his career in Nigeria. Started his career with Calabar XI in 1946, Port Harcourt XI in 1949, and won the Governor’s cup with Railway ...

So many time we focus on the bad side of the country Nigeria. I present to you 8 facts am sure you do not know about the country Nigeria. The Dufuna canoe #1:  The Dufuna canoe is the second oldest water going vessel ever unearthed and the oldest in Africa, it is between 8 000 to 8 500 years old and was uncovered in Northern Nigeria. Photo Credit: art.co.za Emmanuel Ifeajuna #2:  The first Black African to win gold at the Commonwealth games and at an international sports event was Emmanuel Ifeajuna, a Nigerian high-jumper. He broke all records of the time by clearing a height of 6ft and 8in: #3:  In the United States of America, Nigerians are the most educated  immigrant community. Type it into Google and  you'll see it. Not one of the most educated, the  most educated. #4:  60% of Nigerians in the United States of America have college  degrees. This is far above the American national  average of 30%. #5:  Th...

In Romans 9 vs 16, the Bible says: "So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy". This part of the scripture has been a genesis of so many arguments as many believed God is selective of whom to show mercy to.  Many believed that God shows this in the case of Jacob and Esau. Some also believed that Peter was showed mercy but Judas was doomed to die. Little wonders why someone will commit a particular sin, will go scot free but someone else that commit that same sin might die. Many have argued that everyone will not receive the mercy of God, they believed that some people are doomed to perish no matter how many years they spent on the earth, this set of people believed God spares only those he wishes to and destroys others. Wait a minute, Is God really partial? My Opinion: God is not partial, there is something call GRACE. It is available for all those who seek it. Every human is doomed to perish, it i...

James (not real name) graduated school at the top of his year. He attended a top science university, Graduated with a 2.1 in pure theoretical Physics (90% of his class came away with a 2.2 or a 3, no one got a 1). His job now. He washes pots and pans for a large kitchen in Ikoyi.  To most people, he is doing nothing worthwhile. But to him, he is happy and fulfilled. He sees what he is doing as worthwhile in his life. We have read so many articles about being happy and being successful, I quote from. One article I read: "Worth is what we define it as. For some people worth is riches and land; for others it is changing the world. We should not force our expectations on others, but instead we should allow them to find worth in their own way". In Nigeria, everyone expects you to be successful (become rich) especially if you are a University graduate. But then,  “When one spends their life becoming what others want,   there is great hazard of losin...

A Nigerian, Nneka Otika share her story while asking if you have ever experienced anything like this. Her story below: Gosh, where do I begin?! In 2014, I registered on  Freelancer - Hire & Find Jobs  to get jobs as a content writer. You'd have to put your location and mine was Nigeria. Oh boy! I didn't get any jobs for nearly two months even though I worked on each bid well. One of the people who was looking for a freelancer, an Indian, said he liked my bid and samples but he can't hire a Nigerian. That Nigerians aren't trustworthy. Another client also said the same thing. This one was from the US. I did eventually get hired by an Ivorian web developer who lived in India. Another very jarring experience was being called a scammer and whore by a Pakistani user who wanted me to work outside the platform and I refused. I guess he was deeply disturbed. And I promptly reported him. As a Nigerian, you don't get the benefit of doubt from any...